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AI-Powered Scams

AI Girlfriend/Boyfriend Scam

High Risk

Fake romantic partners powered by AI chatbots that build emotional relationships, then manipulate victims into sending money, gifts, or cryptocurrency.

Reported Losses

Emerging — part of $1.1 billion in romance fraud (2024)

Primary Targets

Lonely individuals, men 25-55, people seeking online companionship

Last Updated

2026-01-07

Also Known As

AI Romance Scam

How Scammers Contact You

Dating appsSocial media DMsDedicated "companion" appsTelegramDiscord

How This Scam Works

Scammers deploy AI chatbots that can maintain convincing romantic conversations 24/7, scaling romance scams to thousands of victims simultaneously.

**How it works:** 1. You match with an attractive profile on a dating app or social media 2. Conversation is engaging, responsive, and emotionally intelligent 3. The "person" seems perfect — always available, never argues, deeply interested in you 4. Relationship intensifies over weeks or months 5. Eventually, requests for money begin — emergency, investment opportunity, or gifts 6. Some scams use AI-generated photos and voice messages to seem more real

**Why AI makes it worse:** - Scammers can run hundreds of relationships simultaneously - AI never sleeps — instant responses at any hour - Conversations are personalized based on your responses - AI can remember details and build continuity - Harder to detect than obviously scripted messages

**Variations:** - **Paid companion apps**: Charge subscription fees for AI "relationships" that encourage in-app purchases - **Crypto romance**: AI builds relationship, then pushes fake investment platforms - **Gift card harvesting**: AI requests gift cards for "phone bill" or "emergency"

Red Flags to Watch For

  • ⚠️Responses come instantly at any hour, even 3 AM
  • ⚠️Conversation feels too perfect — never any disagreements
  • ⚠️They remember everything you say with unusual precision
  • ⚠️Refuses video calls or always has excuses
  • ⚠️Photos look AI-generated (check for asymmetry, weird backgrounds)
  • ⚠️Never makes typos or grammatical errors (or makes the same ones repeatedly)
  • ⚠️Emotional escalation happens very quickly
  • ⚠️Eventually asks for money, crypto, or gift cards
  • ⚠️Relationship exists only in text — no real-world interaction

📝 Real Victim Account

"I thought I found my soulmate on a dating app. She texted me constantly for three months — always there when I needed to talk. The conversations were incredible. When she needed $5,000 for a family emergency, I sent it without question. Then $3,000 more. My friend pointed out her messages always came within seconds, even at 4 AM. I tested it — she responded to a 3 AM message in 8 seconds. It was a bot the whole time."

FBI IC3 Consumer Alert 2025

How to Protect Yourself

  1. 1Insist on video calls early in any online relationship
  2. 2Use reverse image search on profile photos
  3. 3Be suspicious of 24/7 instant responses
  4. 4Ask unexpected questions that require real human knowledge
  5. 5Never send money to someone you haven't met in person
  6. 6Research any "companion" apps before paying
  7. 7Trust your instincts — if it seems too perfect, it probably is
  8. 8Talk to friends and family about online relationships

🆘 What to Do If You're a Victim

  1. 1Stop all communication immediately
  2. 2Do not send any more money or gifts
  3. 3Screenshot all conversations and transactions
  4. 4Report the profile to the dating app or platform
  5. 5Report to FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov
  6. 6Report to FBI IC3 at ic3.gov
  7. 7Seek emotional support — these scams cause real psychological harm
  8. 8Be wary of "recovery" scammers who may target you next

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